Most advertisements we see about retirement are usually life insurance, accident insurance, and a happy family living together with grandparents, adults, and grandchildren running about. Many times, however, these remain in advertisements only. Many individuals and families face challenges and situations as children are given wings to fly and settle abroad or outside. That is why planning for one’s retirement entails living in dignity in retirement townships or communities away from cities where care is given. One can stay independently within that community and at the same time get good care.
From 2020, after the outbreak of the Covid-19 pandemic, people have begun to rethink their lifestyles and are planning for their retirement and the care they can give their elders. For a majority, their concerns are regarding giving care, looking after their loved ones, or providing assistance or caregivers. Many are rethinking living in cities and moving out. But with rising expenses, they are compelled to leave their elders behind. Many already independent elders are now exploring gated communities and assisted living. However, the daunting thought is guilt and fear of what people may say. But considering the loneliness that has seeped into our lives after severe lockdowns, social distancing, and worry of not being able to meet one’s loved ones, it is time for us to change our inhibitions and think of the well-being—emotional, psychological, and mental, of our loved ones.
Most mean well when they say they would like to do everything to take care of their aging parents or grandparents. But in the limited space at home, difficulty in getting the proper medical intervention and specialists and to tie them down at home is often not the best choice. Because each is busy with their own lives while the aging loved ones are lonely. There are many options today, even near Mumbai, where one can explore facilities for their loved ones.